My own child experienced selective mutism, so this subject is especially close to my heart. The artwork shown here was created by my daughter during a time when selective mutism was especially difficult for her. She drew constantly, creating image after image. Art gave her a way to express the feelings and anxiety she could not always communicate through words.
Photographing a child with selective mutism requires patience, sensitivity, and a willingness to follow the child’s pace. Avoid asking direct questions or expecting the child to speak, respond, or perform for the camera. Instead, do everything possible to help them relax, feel safe, and gradually forget that the camera is there.
One of the best ways to create this atmosphere is to invite the whole family to play together. Simple games, movement, cuddles, laughter, and familiar interactions with parents can help the child feel less observed and more at ease. Parents should remain close and communicate with their child naturally, without placing pressure on them to participate in any particular way.
The child can communicate through gestures, facial expressions, movement, or simply by being present. Some of the most meaningful photographs happen when a child becomes absorbed in play with their family and forgets about the photographer altogether.
By removing pressure and respecting the child’s boundaries, it is possible to capture genuine personality, connection, and emotion—even without a single spoken word.
I am always happy to share our family’s story and what we learned along the way. Please feel free to email me at joannamalecka.photography@gmail.com if you would like to connect or learn more.
